How MFTs Can Improve Client Outcomes with Measurement-Based Care
The benefits of couple and family therapy are clear: systemic interventions are generally effective at increasing relationship satisfaction, improving communication, bolstering individual mental health, and reducing problematic behaviors (Wittenborn & Holtrop, 2021). But not every client leaves therapy with the improvement they hope for. Surprisingly, a substantial number of clients get worse over the course [...]
Read MoreNavigating New Terrain: Supporting Nonmonogamous Clients
Nonmonogamy (also known as consensual nonmonogamy and ethical nonmonogamy, these are umbrella terms that encompass swinging, polyamory, and other types of nonmonogamy) has moved from the margins toward greater cultural visibility in recent years. Popular media, social networks, and empirical research all reflect rising curiosity about alternative relationship structures. Population surveys suggest that about one [...]
Read MoreSleep Problems Are Relationship Problems: Why MFTs Should Be Leading Dyadic Sleep Interventions
Marriage and family therapists (MFTs) know something that sleep medicine has taken decades to discover: human problems don't exist in isolation. When someone can't sleep, it's rarely just their problem. It's a couple problem. A family problem. A relationship problem. After decades of research on sleep and relationships, the evidence is overwhelming: sleep is fundamentally [...]
Read MoreWhen the World Becomes Too Much: Living in Oscillanguish
There are moments in history when the emotional life of individuals cannot be understood outside of the systems they are embedded in. Moments when distress is not simply internal, but relational, political, technological, and collective. During the COVID-19 pandemic, Adam Grant talked about the concept of languishing, describing a psychological state between depression and flourishing, marked by emptiness, [...]
Read MoreWhen the Homeland Is on a Screen: How Geopolitical Trauma Affects Children in Diaspora Families
Ambient dread At dinner, a father’s hand pauses midair. His phone lights up with a video from a street he once walked as a teenager in Tehran. Smoke fills the frame. Someone is shouting. He leans closer without realizing his daughter is not watching the footage. She is watching his face. In the car after [...]
Read MoreRelief Under Fire: Chronic Repression and the Reorganization of Collective Survival
Historical Rupture and Long Conflict We are living through a historic inflection point, a moment that is reshaping how systems of power and resistance interact and how societies imagine their futures. Since 1979, Iranian society has been structured around an authoritarian system in which protest and suppression form a recurring relational pattern. External tensions with [...]
Read MoreThe AAMFT Podcast All-Star Panel Series: A Celebration of Systemic Therapy’s Common Core
The eighth season of the AAMFT Podcast in 2026 celebrates an unprecedented gathering of systemic therapy's most influential voices. Eight uniquely curated panels bring together 23 master therapists and model developers to talk about the heart and soul of systemic therapy. These supersized episodes offer our audience an intimate look at how diverse theoretical orientations [...]
Read MoreFamily Therapists in Schools: Where We’ve Been and Where We’re Going
This article is a collaborative effort by members of AAMFT’s Family Therapists in Schools Topical Interest Network and school-based colleagues (contributors are listed in alphabetical order). Imagine that you are a high school student, depressed and anxious over conflict at home. Your parents are arguing, and their divorce seems imminent. You have checked in with [...]
Read MoreFriendship, Partnership, and Love Affair: Helping Couples Navigate the Differences so They Can Thrive Together
I see a committed relationship as having three aspects: friendship, business partnership, and love affair. Friendship is liking/respecting/enjoying a partnership, enjoying time and activities together, and, hopefully, having adventures. Business partnership is about logistics running a household (shopping, cleaning, cooking, managing money, cars, etc.), and parenting, whether that’s children and/or pets. A love affair is [...]
Read MoreWhen Family Therapists Go Back Home to Their Families: Notes from an Autoethnographic Practice
Family therapists can spend a lifetime studying theories about family patterns, intergenerational communication, recursive loops, and the dance between closeness and separateness, to name a few. During our training, we are taught to map triangles, track emotional processes across decades, and listen for the stories that shape a person’s sense of personhood. And yet, family [...]
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