• Closing the Gap Between Knowing and Doing: AI Avatars in MFT Training

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Yours, Mine, and Ours: Helping Couples Organize Money

There is a question most therapists rarely think to ask, yet the answer can open the door to some of the most revealing clinical conversations: How do you and your partner actually organize your money?
John L. Hankins, MSS

When the Bedroom Becomes a Battleground: Treating Sleep Anxiety in Couple Therapy

Shelly tried everything. Melatonin. White noise. Blackout curtains. A sleep tracker that glared at her from the nightstand like a Cheshire cat. By the time she started seeing me, she had not slept more than four hours a night for three years; and her marriage was quietly unraveling.
Bruce D. Forman, PhD

Closing the Gap Between Knowing and Doing: AI Avatars in MFT Training

A graduate student begins a session with a couple. One partner does most of the talking. The other gives short, brief answers. Inside of two minutes, the talkative partner keeps pressing the student to take their side, and the student has to decide, right then, whether to follow their lead or turn toward the quieter partner.
Jay Burke, PsyD, & Sofia Georgiadou, PhD

The Space Between Us: A Systemic Approach to Relational Endings

Relational endings might be one of the experiences that can reveal the most vulnerable parts of ourselves—ruptured stories collapsed into an idea of what could have been. In our capacity as systemic practitioners, we get to listen to several stories of longing: romantic relationships that have dissolved without notice, friendships that no longer hold, family (dis)connections that can stretch across silence and distance.
Danna Abraham, PhD & Yuritzi Uribe Lemus, MA

When the World Becomes Too Much: Living in Oscillanguish

There are moments in history when the emotional life of individuals cannot be understood outside of the systems they are embedded in. Moments when distress is not simply internal, but relational, political, technological, and collective. Today, in many parts of the world, people are living in a constant movement between hope and fear, connection and loss, anticipation and dread.
Afarin Rajaei, PhD

Systemic World

When the Homeland Is on a Screen: How Geopolitical Trauma Affects Children in Diaspora Families

At dinner, a father’s hand pauses midair. His phone lights up with a video from a street he once walked as a teenager in Tehran. Smoke fills the frame. Someone is shouting. He leans closer without realizing his daughter is not watching the footage. She is watching his face. In the car after school, a mother lowers the volume on a Farsi news broadcast the moment her son opens the door. She asks about homework in a voice that is just slightly too bright.
Bahareh Sahebi, PsyD

Departments

Perspectives

From Shadows to Strength: Exploring Family, Relationships, Self, and the Making of the Therapist

My family has carried patterns as ugly as bad wallpaper, including intergenerational scripts of anger, estrangement, and survivalism that repeated themselves with paralyzing predictability. But like wallpaper, patterns can be stripped away and replaced with something new, something intentionally chosen rather than inherited, something more beautiful.
Abigail Lamnin, BSN

Perspectives

Turning Down the Heat at Home: How Family Mediation Helps Resolve Conflict Before It Breaks Relationships

Adult siblings not speaking, parents and children at odds, tensions rising over decisions that feel impossible to agree on. Conversations turn into arguments. Small issues become symbolic of something bigger. Everyone feels misunderstood.
Mae Villanueva, MA

Perspectives

Clinical Approaches to Psychotherapy: Distinctive Features, Common Ground

Because there is so much confusion about the multitude of modalities and differences among clinicians providing psychotherapy, the following will briefly describe some common approaches, rooted in psychoanalytic origins, with a focus on the unique contributions of the systemic perspective of marriage and family therapy training.
Maire Claire Daugharty, MD

Perspectives

Temperament: An Important Key to Understanding Oneself and One’s Relationships

Most people know the word temperament, but not really what it means. We’re born with nine different temperament traits, and they range from low activity to high activity. There is no bad trait; all of our qualities can be helpful or problematic depending on the circumstances and how we use them.
Trevor Huskey, MSSW

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