• CURRENT ISSUE  JULY/AUGUST 2024  VOLUME 23, NO. 4

    Spotlight On Student Research: Mental Health Disparities & Other Areas of Study

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Are You Even Intimacy-informed?

The couple sitting on the couch in front of you is looking for guidance as they navigate their marital distress. As a marriage and family therapist (MFT), you begin your intake session with this couple. Your new clients Adam and John have been married for five years. They share with you their recent marital issues and their fears of the inability to repair their relationship.
Julie Payne, DMFT, Pablo Arias, & Julianna Franco

Dating Struggles: Young Adults Coming from Parental Divorce

A new client arrives at your office. This young man in front of you, Adam Perez, begins to tell you how he struggles with his dating confidence and his confusion as to why his romantic relationships never seem to last more than a few months. He says that he feels lonely and vulnerable and begins to share that he fears he will never get married, or if he is able to marry, he expresses concerns about that relationship ending in divorce like his parents.
Alexander Michael Barron, Julie Payne, DMFT, Brandi Prange, & Anthony James Perez

Empowering Young Females: The Role of MFTs in Mitigating Body Image Concerns in the Digital Era

Throughout history, media have consistently proved a detrimental influence on the body satisfaction of young females. However, the recent increase in accessibility of smartphones and social media platforms has significantly intensified the exposure of young females to unrealistic body standards.
Virginia Beall, Stephanie R. Martinez, & Julie Payne, DMFT

Special to This Issue

Bridging Our Political Differences

Talking politics can be provocative because when opinions differ, tensions can quickly arise. In recent years, we have witnessed how ugly political disagreements can become; hence the tendency to want to avoid political talk is understandable. Yet, as therapists, we understand that avoidance blocks intimacy and authenticity. We have found that is best to talk openly and honestly about our political positions, especially when we disagree. The key is to find ways to do this that are constructive and civil.
Tracey A. Laszloffy, PhD & Jason J. Platt, PhD

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Breaking the Cycle: Understanding and Overcoming Insecure Attachment in Relationships

Your new client, Lucy, has come to see you about her issues with maintaining long-lasting and healthy relationships. Lucy shares that she has never felt safe in any relationship and fears her partner will leave her. She constantly worries about being abandoned by the people she loves and often uses sex as a way to “reconnect” with romantic interests.
Julie Payne, DMFT, Nicole Chamorro, & Valeria Castillo

Breaking the Stigma Surrounding Male Infertility

You’ve been seeing a couple for several months when they mention their struggles with trying to conceive. As they open up, it becomes clear that they’ve been attempting to conceive naturally for over a year without success. Their doctor has recommended standard fertility testing for both partners. The woman, age 32, shares that she has been feeling discouraged, expressing her desire to become a mother. However, her husband, age 34, appears detached and offers minimal input.
Julie Payne, DMFT, & Bonnie R. Chiu

Bridging the Gap between ABA and the MFT Field in Supporting Minority Families

As a marriage and family therapist (MFT), one can encounter a family with an autistic child who utilizes Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) therapy. The system’s inflexibility makes it difficult for parents to navigate and integrate into their busy lives while attending to the demands of parenting a child with autism. Additionally, cultural barriers can leave the family disheartened and feeling lost or unsupported while trying to navigate the process of ABA services.
Megan Felix, Julie Payne, DMFT, & Anna Forslund

How Technoference Breaks Down Families: What MFTs Need to Know

Digital media and modern technology have become a part of people’s everyday lives through useful applications in work, school, communication, etc. However, research finds that it has created an interpersonal wall during shared child-parent activities known as technology interference (technoference) which negatively impacts the child-parent relationship.
Julie Payne, DMFT, David Jimenez, & Kimberly Licona

Understanding the Second-Generation Experience

You wake up, get ready for the day, kiss your family goodbye, and linger at the door. You take a breath and prepare to move from one culture into another. As a graduate student in mental health, your passion for this field has been led by your identity. You are presented with an assignment where you can create a working program in a chosen community, and you choose yours. You decided to tailor your assignment to your experience as a second-generation Mexican-American woman.
Julie Payne, DMFT, Kassandra Miranda, & Alejandra Ochoa

Feature

The Need for Both Mental and Physical Health Services for Incarcerated Women

In 2010, 65,000 incarcerated women in federal and state prisons reported as mothers to around 147,000 children under 18 (Cooper-Sadlo et al., 2018). In terms of race and ethnicity, African American incarcerated women have higher rates of having children prior to incarceration or being impregnated during the incarceration, compared to people of other races (Goshin et al., 2017).
Eman Tadros, PhD

FEATURES

Anything is Paws-ible: Animal-assisted Therapy in School-based Settings

Many children in the U.S. need mental health services but cannot acquire them due to lack of accessibility or resource availability. According to the Centers for Disease Control (2023), only 20% of children with mental, emotional, or behavioral disorders receive services from a specialized mental healthcare provider.
Julie Payne, DMFT, Ria Diddee, & Kareema Tamory

Child Sexual Abuse: What Can We Do?

No individual is safe from sexual abuse, with children being at the forefront of the risk for sexual assault and ongoing abuse. Dax Shepard is a well-known actor who suffered at the hands of another individual when he was a child. Dax is a man who seems to have it all—a successful career in Hollywood, a loving family, and a charming personality that endeared him to many.
Margo Plater, Julie Payne, DMFT, & Andrew Siongco

Barriers to Trauma-Informed Eating Disorder Treatment

When you spend an extended amount of time in an eating disorder treatment facility, you pick up on a carefully constructed set of rules of engagement. When someone begins hyperventilating in a group therapy session, you learn to fill a Ziploc bag with ice and hold it against their wrist. There are words used to signal to each other that certain topics of conversation are “off-limits.”
Parker Rose, Julie Payne, DMFT, & Victoria Baum

Tuning into Therapy: Using Music to Address Client No-Shows in Marriage & Family Therapy

You’re a marriage and family therapist (MFT) expecting a new client for an intake session. Your eyes dart to your clock—it’s time for the intake and your client hasn’t shown up. You tap your feet, play some sudoku, and look over their demographic information and consultation notes. Ten minutes pass and you call your client.
Julie Payne, DMFT, Zoe Shehan, Brooks Massey, & Michael Ting

Cultural Blindness in Mental Healthcare: Navigating the Barriers for Asian Americans

An Asian American woman in her early 20s, her voice barely a whisper, tentatively joins a telehealth therapy session. The marriage and family therapist, perhaps well-intentioned but lacking cultural sensitivity, fails to grasp the gravity of her whispered greeting. Oblivious to the weight of familial burdens she carries, the therapist presses on, asking what’s wrong.
Julie Payne, DMFT, Katie Sy, & Julie Koh

NEWS FROM AAMFT
Departments

Perspectives

Expanding the Frame

This past spring, we had the pleasure of presenting together at the 2024 AAMFT Leadership Symposium in Phoenix. The title of our presentation was “Expanding the Frame: Leading the Charge on Relational, Multigenerational, and Systemic Awareness Among Mental Health Professionals.” We are both program directors of small, relatively nascent MFT programs in the Bronx, located roughly six miles apart.
Michelle A. Bell, PsyD & Sharon Marianetti-Leeper, PhD

Perspectives

An Invitation to Explore Ecotherapy

In the early months of the COVID-19 pandemic, with fear and the unknown weighing heavily, I wrote an article about taking therapy outdoors as “A Natural Approach to Current Mental Health Challenges” (Family Therapy magazine, July/August 2020). Therapy, which pre-pandemic was almost exclusively provided face to face in offices around the world, was catapulted onto the online platform and clients found themselves seeing their therapists in closets, bathrooms, bedrooms, cars; anywhere they could find some privacy and an internet connection.
Lauren Kahn, MSW

Perspectives

Laugh Rather Than Lecture: A Humorous Approach to Excessive Mobile Phone and Social Media Use

In the world of modern technology, the rise of internet gaming disorder, excessive social media and mobile phone use has become a real head-scratcher for families. As an MFT with a knack for humor and a background in researching IGD, MMORPG, and suicide, I’ve had my fair share of laughable moments in the therapy room.
Ezra Lockhart, PhD

Perspectives

Helping Clients Understand the Differences: The Importance of Psychotherapy in an Unregulated Coaching Landscape

In the modern age, there is a focus on mental wellness. Individuals seek guidance to navigate the complexities of their lives. Amidst the myriad options, from psychotherapy to coaching, it’s imperative to discern the nuances between these practices.
Ezra Lockhart, PhD

Perspectives

Micro Feminism: Small Acts of Feminism Can Confront Big Biases in Academia

Social media is flooded with videos of people—men, women, and those who are gender-fluid—explaining how they use micro feminism to challenge gender inequality in their personal lives. While you might not be familiar with the term “micro feminism,” chances are, you’ve observed or participated in the undoing of gender biases more often than you realize.
Danna Abraham, PhD


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