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Women’s Health and the Absence of Relational Care. Period.

Recently, there has been a notable shift in public attention toward women’s health. Conditions that were once not en vogue (e.g., perimenopause, hormonal health, reproductive pain, etc.) have begun moving into mainstream visibility. Dialogue about women’s health is carried by social media, celebrity disclosures, and a growing cultural willingness to name what was previously left in the margins of personal experience.
Danna Abraham, PhD

For the Joy of Working with Children

I have heard through the grapevine that many MFTs are hesitant to work with kids.That’s understandable. In my training, there was little in the way of a developmental psychology focus. When my internship supervisor at Jewish Family Services in Stamford, Connecticut, handed me a file about Sandplay, because I was working with youngsters whose parents were divorcing, I felt excited and unsure. What was I to do as a six-year-old dug deep into a sandbox to unearth her devastation about being dragged between warring households? Just sit there?
Neal H. Brodsky, MPA

When Safety Isn’t Enough: What Sexual Disconnection Reveals About Nervous System Sequencing in Couples

A couple completes a significant phase of therapy feeling more emotionally connected than they have in years. However, their sexual relationship remains flat, contracted, or absent. Sensate focus exercises are assigned, or a sex therapy referral is made. Progress stalls. The question worth asking is not what is wrong with the couple, but what is missing from the sequencing.
Skylar Collé, PhD

Departments

A Message from the President

Expanding the Influence of Systemic Thinking Around the World

I am a huge fan of systemic thinking and the ability of systemic thinkers to make a difference around the world. One of the foci of AAMFT this year has been to prioritize Eminent Influence.
Adrian Blow, PhD

Special To This Issue

The Third Actor in the Room: How AI Is Quietly Changing Therapy

Robert scheduled an individual session to process the latest fight he had with his wife. As one member of a couple I had been seeing for two years, I was well aware of Robert’s pattern and had honed in on a diagnosis of bipolar disorder, preparing to initiate a discussion about this with Robert.
Katherine M. Hertlein, PhD

Perspectives

Dostoevsky’s The Adolescent: Wealth, Class, and the Cultivation of a Psychologically Healthy Self – A Systemic Approach to Treatment

In The Adolescent, Dostoevsky gives us Arkady Dolgoruky, a young man trying to locate his center of gravity while orbiting a family system organized around wealth, power, and the capricious authority of a charismatic father.
Paul Hokemeyer, JD, PhD

Perspectives

Not That Kind of Doctor: What a Mass-Casualty Drill Taught Me About First Responders

What a mass-casualty drill taught me about first responders, the families who love them, and the cost of going numb.
John Souza, Jr., DMFT

Ethics + Legal

Healing Over Hostility: Aligning Family Therapy with Structured Dispute Resolution

For decades, marriage and family therapists have worked tirelessly to help couples navigate discernment therapy or conscious uncoupling.
Amanda Mason, JD & Joelle Scholer, MSW

Ethics + Legal

Nonmonogamous Therapists Practicing in Their Own Community: Connecting the Code of Ethics

Before we plan a second date, I need to ask you a few questions that might feel strange. Who are your partners, and who are their partners? I am a therapist, and I work with the nonmonogamous community in this city.
M. Evan Thomas, PhD & Shaylin King, MMFT

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—DeAnna Harris-McKoy, PhD


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—Sheldon Jacobs, PsyD, LMFT