CURRENT ISSUE VOLUME 24, NO. 5
September / October 2025
CURRENT ISSUE VOLUME 24, NO. 5
September / October 2025
CURRENT ISSUE VOLUME 24, NO. 5
September / October 2025
FEATURES
The Silent Strain: Exploring Emotional and Structural Burdens of Informal Caregiving
Unlike most roles in life, caregiving may be thrust upon individuals when they least expect it. In 2024, there were 105.6 million caregivers in the United States, and in 2020, there were over 53 million unpaid caregivers supporting friends and loved ones with chronic conditions or disabilities.
Srinithi Sridhar, MS & DeAnna Harris-McKoy, PhD
Resistance in Caregiving
Resistance is a common challenge in caregiving, experienced by both caregivers and care recipients. It often reflects a desire to maintain control and cling to the familiar, especially during times of stress or adversity. Care recipients may resist when they feel their independence is being taken away, while caregivers may feel overwhelmed and uncertain about how to respond. Family caregivers can also resist, especially when there is disagreement about care decisions, leading to conflict and tension. This article explores both care recipient and caregiver resistance.
Nancy L. Kriseman, MSW
Clinical Practice with Parents of Emerging Adults
Marlene, a 46-year-old mother, presents for therapy and tearfully tells you that her once solid relationship with her 19-year-old son is in jeopardy. Marlene proceeds to describe Erik’s pattern of “less than stellar grades,” “apathy about finding employment,” “staying out late,” and “using marijuana – a lot.” Marlene shares that her husband thinks “Erik is the way he is because I coddled him too much.” Erik refuses to see a therapist or medical provider. After consulting with her physician, Marlene becomes convinced that Erik has “adult ADHD.”
Lynne Carroll, PhD & Paula J. Gilroy, EdD
Feature
Migraine and the Bidirectional Connection to Mental Health Disorders
Affecting millions of people worldwide, migraine is considered one of the top 10 most disabling medical conditions by the World Health Organization (WHO). The condition has an estimated worldwide prevalence of 15-18% (Khan et al., 2021), including over 37 million Americans (American Migraine Foundation, n.d.; Walter, 2022). Migraine is a serious and debilitating medical condition characterized by significant throbbing head pain that is accompanied by various sensory, motor, and somatosensory disturbances.
Jerrod Brown, PhD, Jeremiah Schimp, PhD, Shelley Mydra, DMFT, Leanne Skehan, DCN, Bettye Sue Hennington, PhD, Stacey L. Mascia, PhD, & Elija Kneringer, BS
NEWS FROM AAMFT
Departments
A Message From the President
Influencing the Global Growth of Systemic Family Therapy
This year, AAMFT launched an exciting new initiative, the Global Systemic Therapy Summit. In early July, the inaugural summit took place in Nairobi, Kenya, and I was extremely fortunate to attend the summit. I do not say this lightly when I declare that this was the most meaningful family therapy conference I have attended in my career, and I have been to many events over the last 30 years.
Adrian Blow, PhD
Special to This Issue
This Is What Happens When Therapists Don’t Understand Asexuality
The problem my husband and I had was, admittedly, a tricky one. I had always been disinterested in sex ever since my high school years—it didn’t make sense to me, I had no need for it, and I never enjoyed it—but, 9 years into our marriage, that disinterest had developed into a deep repulsion. After some sleuthing on the internet which led me to the Asexuality and Visibility Education Network (AVEN), I figured out I was asexual.
Debbie Urbanski
Perspectives
An Open Letter to Hopelessness
You arrive uninvited and begin to tally every crisis, stacking them up as evidence that our efforts are futile, certainly too small. You loudly proclaim: “These problems are too big and your resources are too few to change all the pain and suffering of the world. What in the world were you thinking? Oh, my mistake. You weren’t. That’s why I need to be here with you.”
Danna Abraham, PhD & Kaethe Weingarten, PhD
Perspectives
To name something—to separate it from the rest of existence—and label it, is a foundational act. It is the beginning of understanding and control. In Genesis, the first thing God did in splitting light from darkness was to call the day light and the darkness night. Then, let loose in the Garden of Eden, Adam set out naming God’s creatures. In many ways, it could be said that Adam was humanity’s first label maker (Singh, 2024).
H. Charles Fishman, MD & Misti Sparks, PhD
Systemic World
Therapy, the Buna Ceremony, and Elders: Lessons from Ethiopia
As an Ethiopian, I know how deeply our lives are shaped by religion, tradition, and collectivism. In our culture, it is not natural to share intimate details with an outsider, especially about family struggles. The idea of vulnerability with a stranger feels unsettling. And yet, I also know that Ethiopians already engage in practices that look remarkably similar to what therapy provides—listening, validation, guidance, and healing.
Bethelheim Haileyesus
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FTM is a connector to and from diverse family therapy practice, policy, supervision, and research leaders.
—Angela Lamson, PhD, LMFT
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With cutting-edge and relevant articles, the FTM is the place I find practical systemic information.
—DeAnna Harris-McKoy, PhD
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The magazine is great because it shows what other remarkable things my fellow colleagues are doing in the field.
—Sheldon Jacobs, PsyD, LMFT