April 2026

The Space Between Us: A Systemic Approach to Relational Endings

Relational endings might be one of the experiences that can reveal the most vulnerable parts of ourselves—ruptured stories collapsed into an idea of what could have been. In our capacity as systemic practitioners, we get to listen to several stories of longing: romantic relationships that have dissolved without notice, friendships that no longer hold, family [...]

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April 2026

Closing the Gap Between Knowing and Doing: AI Avatars in MFT Training

A graduate student begins a session with a couple. One partner does most of the talking. The other gives short, brief answers. Inside of two minutes, the talkative partner keeps pressing the student to take their side, and the student has to decide, right then, whether to follow their lead or turn toward the quieter [...]

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April 2026

When the Bedroom Becomes a Battleground: Treating Sleep Anxiety in Couple Therapy

Shelly tried everything. Melatonin. White noise. Blackout curtains. A sleep tracker that glared at her from the nightstand like a Cheshire cat. By the time she started seeing me, she had not slept more than four hours a night for three years; and her marriage was quietly unraveling. Her husband, Jared, had decamped to the [...]

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April 2026

Yours, Mine, and Ours: Helping Couples Organize Money

There is a question most therapists rarely think to ask, yet the answer can open the door to some of the most revealing clinical conversations: How do you and your partner actually organize your money? Not “Do you fight about money?” That question is common enough. This one is more specific: Do you pool everything, [...]

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April 2026

Being a Positive Advocate When an Elder Needs Hospital Care

A large part of my work with caregivers has involved helping them learn how to be effective advocates when an elder requires hospital care. Advocacy refers to the actions you take to support the elder so they receive the best possible care and outcomes. Ideally, the advocate is also the elder’s Power of Attorney for [...]

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April 2026

How MFTs Can Improve Client Outcomes with Measurement-Based Care

The benefits of couple and family therapy are clear: systemic interventions are generally effective at increasing relationship satisfaction, improving communication, bolstering individual mental health, and reducing problematic behaviors (Wittenborn & Holtrop, 2021). But not every client leaves therapy with the improvement they hope for. Surprisingly, a substantial number of clients get worse over the course [...]

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April 2026

Navigating New Terrain: Supporting Nonmonogamous Clients

Nonmonogamy (also known as consensual nonmonogamy and ethical nonmonogamy, these are umbrella terms that encompass swinging, polyamory, and other types of nonmonogamy) has moved from the margins toward greater cultural visibility in recent years. Popular media, social networks, and empirical research all reflect rising curiosity about alternative relationship structures. Population surveys suggest that about one [...]

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April 2026

Sleep Problems Are Relationship Problems: Why MFTs Should Be Leading Dyadic Sleep Interventions

Marriage and family therapists (MFTs) know something that sleep medicine has taken decades to discover: human problems don't exist in isolation. When someone can't sleep, it's rarely just their problem. It's a couple problem. A family problem. A relationship problem. After decades of research on sleep and relationships, the evidence is overwhelming: sleep is fundamentally [...]

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April 2026

When the World Becomes Too Much: Living in Oscillanguish

There are moments in history when the emotional life of individuals cannot be understood outside of the systems they are embedded in. Moments when distress is not simply internal, but relational, political, technological, and collective. During the COVID-19 pandemic, Adam Grant talked about the concept of languishing, describing a psychological state between depression and flourishing, marked by emptiness, [...]

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January / February 2026

Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders in Children

This article provides an overview of Pediatric Acute-Onset Neuropsychiatric Syndrome (PANS) and Pediatric Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Streptococcal Infections (PANDAS): A Beginner’s Guide for Mental Health Providers and Allied Professionals Pediatric Acute-Onset Neuropsychiatric Syndrome (PANS) is a clinical condition characterized by the sudden onset of severe neuropsychiatric symptoms in children, most notably obsessive-compulsive behaviors [...]

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