Nurturing Nature & Global Perspectives

therapy talk In the JMFT article “Nurturing Nature: Exploring Ecological Self-of-the-Therapist Issues,” authors Tracey A. Laszloffy and Sean D. Davis (2019) note that the field of family therapy has its roots in the systemic premise that context shapes our realities. We cannot understand individuals devoid of seeing them in their family context, and we cannot [...]

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Too much, not enough

Mary Katherine Lance, is a second year master’s student at the University of Kentucky in its Couple & Family Therapy Program. She is an intern therapist and a Student member of AAMFT. Lance is working on her thesis, currently entitled “And Still I Rise: The Lived Experience of Hope During Recovery from Substance Use Disorder.” [...]

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Transgenerational Trauma: A Memory of a Therapist to Be

“Can you just slow down? Can you drive slower?” cousin Mary requested as she sat beside me. “I can,” I assured her as I dropped my speed. “But we’re on the highway and I have to keep up.” It was 1964 and at that time I had no idea what post-traumatic stress could be, notwithstanding [...]

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Relationship Rebalancing: A New Framework for Effective Communication

In 2020, life as we knew it was turned upside down by COVID-19. Everyone, worldwide, has felt at least somewhat off balance. Relationships have been especially impacted as the sense of normalcy, established routines, rituals, and reasonable certainty about the future were disrupted The equilibrium that allowed people to feel stable and connected to others [...]

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In Defense of (Very) Long-term Therapy

The truth may be that time, and lots of it, is a necessary condition for the healing of broad and very deep wounds from childhood. Time may be such an essential part of the therapeutic process for these particular clients that it needs to be understood in an entirely new way—particularly when much of what [...]

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Couple Connectedness and COVID-19

Relational problems exacerbated by COVID-19: The COVID-19 pandemic has resulted in unprecedented global morbidity and mortality, with mental health effects being an increasing concern, and specific threats within the family context (Prime & Wade, 2020). During the pandemic, challenges related to social disruption, such as financial instability, caregiving pressure, and confinement-related stress, pose a serious [...]

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An Overview of the Red Cross and Disaster Mental Health

If you or your family were impacted by a disaster, would you have everything you need? Where would you go if you needed to leave your home? What about food, water and prescription medications? Your family pets? Would you or your family members need emotional support to cope with what you had witnessed and experienced? [...]

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Systemic Therapists on the Frontlines of Climate Change

Data show that the rate of weather-related disasters is growing rapidly in the United States (U.S.). There were an average of 7.1 annual weather-related events in the U.S. between the years 1980-2020; however, the annual average for the most recent five-year period (2016-2020) was 16.2 events (NOAA, 2021). Furthermore, 2020 was the sixth consecutive year [...]

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Helping Families Cope With Disasters

A disaster doesn’t have to mean family problems if families remain connected and look for opportunities to transform themselves and their communities. Shortly before his death, I had the pleasure of having dinner with Salvador Minuchin. It was an honor to hear him comment on my work when I had spent so much of my [...]

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MFTs and Climate Change: A Call to Action

Several weeks ago, I asked my six-year-old son if he wanted to go outside. It's been unseasonably warm here, and after a year of COVID restrictions, we’ve found the outdoors to be a necessary respite. But upon opening the backdoor we were greeted with the distinct smell of wildfire smoke. It had been a blustery [...]

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