When you spend an extended amount of time in an eating disorder treatment facility, you quickly pick up on a carefully constructed set of rules of engagement. When someone begins hyperventilating in a group therapy session, you learn to fill a Ziploc bag with ice and hold it against their wrist. There are words used to signal to each other that certain topics of conversation are “off-limits” (e.g., “Red light!”). Often, therapists are required to stay hours after particularly heavy group therapy sessions to de-escalate clients’ panic attacks, flashbacks, and suicidal ideation.
The other clients know to leave them alone. You learn what it means when these things occur but never use direct language to describe the phenomena. These experiences are implied to be just part of having an eating disorder.
And arguably, they are. More and more research supports the comorbidity of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and eating disorders (ED). Around half of the individuals entering residential treatment for an ED meet the criteria for PTSD (Brewerton et al., 2020). Research has shown that the life events and circumstances that lead to the development of PTSD also tend to lead to the development of EDs (Brewerton, 2022). Those who have PTSD or trauma-related symptoms more frequently relapse or continue to struggle with ED symptoms post-treatment (Day et al., 2023). However, there seems to be a lack of formal recognition of underlying trauma within ED treatment as a common comorbidity. For example, formal psychoeducation or groups centered on trauma are often not provided.
This is especially puzzling considering the systemic approach of marriage and family therapists (MFTs), which makes them uniquely qualified to address EDs in this way. The relational scope of MFTs allows for a broad context of a client’s life and how their personal history, relationship dynamics, and social location directly impact symptoms.
In an interview with Psychology Today, psychiatrist and researcher Dr. Molly Perlman reports that she, “[W]as trained not to open the “trauma box” (Bulow, 2023). This was primarily due to concerns that discussions of trauma would worsen ED symptoms and that this would lead to relapse after discharge or early discharge altogether. Incomplete trauma care, in other words, can cause more harm than good if the trauma is not effectively processed and able to be put back into the trauma box.
Many people may be discharged early from ED treatment when they become too triggered by an inability to cope with the distress caused by opening the trauma box. However, one of the main reasons that we’ve observed that people discharge from treatment early is financial constraints.
Insurance companies frequently deny coverage when a client is undergoing treatment and individuals run out of savings. Insurance companies prefer a time limit on treatment; commonly, time frames consist of 30-day, 60-day, and 90-day treatment plans. In my (VB) experience working as a recovery coach at an ED residential treatment center, I became hypervigilant regarding correctly documenting medical necessity to client notes to prompt insurance companies to maintain coverage for treatment. Insurance companies often interpreted even the slightest positive remarks as a signal to terminate treatment, assuming the client was “recovered” and ready to be discharged.
Thus, it is not just a lack of knowledge about the intersection of trauma and EDs but the limitations of insurance companies. If insurance companies changed the reimbursement structure or were more willing to cover longer treatment facility stays, trauma-informed care could be better integrated into treatment plans.
Anyone who has spent extensive time in an ED treatment facility is familiar with the experience of clients who have been to one, two, three, or potentially 10 different facilities. Frequently, these are the clients who are the ones who experience trauma symptoms and need more integrative care.
Thus, even though it might be with good intentions that therapists do not address clients’ trauma for fear of relapse, this usually only leads to clients getting passed around to different treatment facilities to manage increasingly complex symptoms. It must be acknowledged that more complicated ED presentations are often due to trauma. If the underlying trauma is not addressed for these patients, then they will be trapped in a cycle of discharge, relapse, and readmission. It’s unclear if this “revolving door” approach to care benefits anyone, but it’s certainly not benefitting clients.
Marriage and family therapists must be sensitive to how trauma can lead to, complicate, or exacerbate ED symptoms. Marriage and family therapists must be trained and comfortable with assessing their clients for EDs and co-occurring trauma symptoms and comfortable providing trauma-informed care and psychoeducation about trauma. They must be able to handle the complexities.
However, as noted above, marriage and family therapists are often already aware of these complexities. The field of marriage and family is built upon a foundation of systems theory, which acknowledges and embraces these complexities.
That said, are insurance companies built upon a similar foundation? As all mental health fields progress, we are learning more and more about the role of underlying trauma and co-occurring conditions on client symptoms (van der Kolk, 2014). By acknowledging the unique challenges individuals with co-occurring EDs and trauma face, insurance companies must ensure that appropriate and comprehensive treatment options are covered. If mental health disorders are to be viewed as nuanced and systemic, then insurance companies must also be nuanced and systemic in their approach.
This might mean expanding coverage for trauma-informed therapies, specialized treatment programs, and longer-term treatment to address the particular needs of this population. Trauma should be seen, as ED treatment facilities frequently recognize, as often just another part of having an eating disorder.
Insurance companies restrict patients’ access to effective care and often only approve short stays in ED treatment facilities, which are not conducive to the integration of trauma-informed care, which can take a long time. Patients who do not receive the proper care will continue to be harmed, as they are more likely to be discharged early only to relapse and require readmission, often at a higher level of care.
The next step is broader advocacy for insurance policy change through coalition-building with other clinicians and raising awareness within the larger community and our government.
As clinicians, it is difficult to conceptualize how we can change the treatment trajectory for our clients. How can the average therapist get insurance companies to change? The first step to any change process is awareness. To engage in advocacy, therapists and clinicians must be aware of the barriers to effective care for clients with eating disorders and co-occurring trauma. Therapists must empower their clients to fight for the treatment they deserve and advocate for their clients directly to insurance companies when appropriate. The next step is broader advocacy for insurance policy change through coalition-building with other clinicians and raising awareness within the larger community and our government. Whether lobbying for laws supporting trauma-informed care or speaking directly with insurance companies, the fight for your client is paramount.
Those of us who have spent time in ED treatment facilities are already well aware of this intersection. We are aware of the implicit rules of engagement. We are aware of the well-intentioned avoidance of trauma-informed care. The research is clear: trauma-informed care is necessary for a large portion of those diagnosed with eating disorders. If the therapists, clients, and academics are all on the same page about the need for trauma-informed care, the change must happen at the insurance company policy level.
As the landscape of mental health shifts, the companies that ensure access to care for millions of people must also shift. Not only is this clearly crucial for those suffering from eating disorders, but for just about any mental health ailment that brings individuals into the offices of marriage and family therapists.

Parker Rose, is a member of AAMFT and a second-year student in the Department of Marriage and Family Therapy at Chapman University. Parker is interested in working with all populations and has a particular interest in working with those struggling with eating disorders and complex trauma. She is passionate about embracing clients’ unique stories in a collaborative healing environment. In her spare time, Parker enjoys reading fiction and pretending to know how to read a recipe.

Julie Payne, DMFT, LMFT, is an AAMFT Professional member holding the Clinical Fellow and Approved Supervisor designations and a Clinical Assistant Professor at Chapman University in the Marriage and Family Therapy Program. She has over 17 years of clinical experience working in community-based mental health and private practice settings. Dr. Payne is currently licensed and practicing in California and Texas specializing in working with families and individuals living with chronic illness/pain, military families, children and adolescents, and trauma.

Victoria Baum, is a second-year student in Chapman University’s Marriage and Family Therapy Program. Baum is committed to creating a supportive and empathetic environment where clients feel heard and genuinely understood. Her passion lies in helping individuals struggling with eating disorders navigate their challenges with compassion and encouragement. She aims to provide personalized care tailored to her client’s unique needs, fostering a sense of trust and empowerment on their journey toward recovery.
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