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Breaking the Stigma Surrounding Male Infertility

 

You’ve been seeing a couple for several months when they mention their struggles with trying to conceive. As they open up, it becomes clear that they’ve been attempting to conceive naturally for over a year without success. Their doctor has recommended standard fertility testing for both partners. The woman, age 32, shares that she has been feeling discouraged, expressing her desire to become a mother. However, her husband, age 34, appears detached and offers minimal input. When questioned about his perspective, he voices resistance and confusion about why he needs to be tested. Throughout the session, he remains closed off, showing reluctance to delve deeper into their fertility struggles. 


A month later, you discover he has been diagnosed with male-factor infertility. She feels supportive of him, but at the same time, she is frustrated by his disengagement and unwillingness to discuss the matter. He struggles with guilt, but he finds it challenging to open up about his feelings. Moreover, he is hesitant to attend fertility appointments. He expresses that it is her body, thus struggling to assert his voice in the matter.

There is a prevailing stigma surrounding male infertility that casts a shadow over individuals and couples alike, exacerbating the emotional toll of an already challenging journey. Infertility is often perceived as solely a women’s issue, with a dominant consensus worldwide that engaging men in discussions surrounding fertility challenges is difficult (Harlow et al., 2020). This perception highlights the widespread gender bias in discussions about infertility, where women are disproportionately burdened with the responsibility and blame for conception difficulties. The reluctance to involve men reflects deeply ingrained societal norms regarding masculinity and reproductive roles. In many societies, the ability to reproduce is deeply embedded in cultural expectations of masculinity (Dierickx et al., 2021). Consequently, male infertility often carries a sense of shame, failure, and emasculation for those affected. Additionally, the emotional burden of infertility can weigh heavily on men, exacerbating psychological distress and straining interpersonal relationships. (Simonescu et al., 2021). This pervasive stigma can also foster a sense of isolation, as men grappling with infertility may feel reluctant to seek support or share their experiences openly for fear of judgment or ridicule. Some men may feel like less of a man if the infertility is male factor, which emphasizes the importance of breaking down the stigma and promoting open and honest conversations.

In therapy, addressing this stigma is vital to providing effective support. By creating a safe and non-judgmental space for open discussion, marriage and family therapists (MFTs) can empower individuals and couples to confront and process their feelings, fostering resilience and promoting emotional healing. Breaking the silence surrounding male infertility allows for the validation of experiences, debunking myths, and challenging societal norms, ultimately paving the way for better understanding, empathy, and support.

MFTs should know that couples typically need to wait a year before seeing a fertility specialist. Prior to seeing a specialist, they will likely go through standard infertility testing. However, men frequently experience embarrassment when considering a semen analysis at a hospital, often due to prevalent social stigmas surrounding male infertility testing (Tsao et al., 2020). Mental health providers can collaborate with healthcare practitioners to destigmatize male-factor infertility and encourage open discussion and acceptance. This emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive atmosphere to break down stigma before healthcare providers recommend semen analysis testing. Having these discussions is crucial because semen analysis testing is generally less invasive than ovarian reserve testing (Turner et al., 2020). Semen analysis testing can offer valuable insights within the first year of attempting to conceive, potentially providing answers before consulting a fertility specialist. Though the fertility journey presents its challenges, obtaining answers can provide reassurance along the way.

Once the gateway to open discussion has been made, MFTs can assist couples in navigating the difficult challenges of male infertility through practical strategies aimed at holistic support and empowerment. The scope of practice for MFTs positions them ideally to offer couples a thorough understanding of the emotional and relational dimensions at play. Taking it a step further, MFTs can work with healthcare practitioners by connecting with local hospitals and organizing informative sessions, such as lunch and learns, aimed at destigmatizing male infertility and communication. Facilitating communication exercises around these topics enables partners to express their thoughts, fears, and aspirations openly, promoting mutual understanding and empathy. Additionally, offering coping strategies tailored to managing stress and anxiety equips couples with practical tools to navigate the emotional rollercoaster of infertility, promoting resilience and emotional well-being. By integrating these strategies into therapy sessions, MFTs can empower couples to navigate their journey with greater confidence, solidarity, and hope.

Julie Payne, DMFT, LMFT, is an AAMFT Professional member holding the Clinical Fellow and Approved Supervisor designations and a Clinical Assistant Professor at Chapman University in the Marriage and Family Therapy Program. She has over 17 years of clinical experience working in community-based mental health and private practice settings. Dr. Payne is currently licensed and practicing in California and Texas specializing in working with families and individuals living with chronic illness/pain, military families, children and adolescents, and trauma.

Bonnie.Chiu

Bonnie Chiu, MFT, trainee, is a MFT student at Chapman University. She is finishing her second year in the program, and she has worked as a graduate assistant for two years. Chiu is currently conducting research focused on male infertility and hopes to bring this into her own practice when she is licensed.


Dierickx, S., Oruko, K. O., Clarke, E., Ceesay, S., Pacey, A., & Balen, J. (2021). Men and infertility in The Gambia: Limited biomedical knowledge and awareness discourage male involvement and exacerbate gender-based impacts of infertility. PloS one16(11), e0260084. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0260084

Harlow, A. F., Zheng, A., Nordberg, J., Hatch, E. E., Ransbotham, S., & Wise, L. A. (2020). A qualitative study of factors influencing male participation in fertility research. Reproductive Health17(1), 186. https://doi.org/10.1186/s12978-020-01046-y

Simionescu, G., Doroftei, B., Maftei, R., Obreja, B. E., Anton, E., Grab, D., Ilea, C., & Anton, C. (2021). The complex relationship between infertility and psychological distress (Review). Experimental and Therapeutic Medicine21(4), 306. https://doi.org/10.3892/etm.2021.9737

Turner, K. A., Rambhatla, A., Schon, S., Agarwal, A., Krawetz, S. A., Dupree, J. M., & Avidor-Reiss, T. (2020). Male Infertility is a women’s health issue-research and clinical evaluation of male infertility is needed. Cells9(4), 990. https://doi-org.chapman.idm.oclc.org/10.3390/cells9040990

Tsao, Y. T., Yang, C. Y., Wen, Y. C., Chang, T. C., Matsuura, K., Chen, Y., & Cheng, C. M. (2020). Point-of-care semen analysis of patients with infertility via smartphone and colorimetric paper-based diagnostic device. Bioengineering & Translational Medicine6(1), e10176. https://doi-org.chapman.idm.oclc.org/10.1002/btm2.10176

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