LGBTQ Boomers, AIDS, and COVID-19

For many Americans, the time of the Coronavirus is marked by deep fear. This stems in part from the threat of the virus itself, but is heightened by a lack of information. It is destabilizing for a country to grapple with a new disease that medical experts are still coming to understand. There is often [...]

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Gray Divorce: Splitting Up in Later Life

Many years ago, my grandmother attended a 50th wedding anniversary party for her friends, Joan and Alan. The couple spared no expense. Champagne flowed, the band played late into the night, the finest food was served. Several hundred guests traveled from all over the country to celebrate the joyous occasion. A few weeks later, Joan [...]

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Integrating Geek Therapy and Narrative Family Therapy

After playing a random game of Dungeons & Dragons (D&D) one night, I noticed myself contemplate how I could incorporate D&D into my practice. I shared this with a friend who told me about Geek Therapy Community, a Facebook page dedicated to professionals interested in Geek Therapy and integrating it into clinical, research, and school [...]

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Living Apart Together: Cultivating New Possibilities in Old Age

Beth (63) and Gary (65) met through mutual friends and have been in a significant relationship for seven years. They both decided to live apart together, early in their relationship. Living apart together (LAT) allows “long-term intimacy without necessarily involving marriage or cohabitation” (Karlsson & Borell, 2002, p. 13). For this couple, loving each other [...]

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Meaning of Aging in a Time of Crisis

"I think what I’ve learned is that you really don’t know what you’re capable of until you’re challenged with situations where you really have to figure out what your strength is and you have to figure out how you are going cope. And so you don’t know, I think, until you’re really challenged. So even [...]

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The Boomer Generation and Myths about Aging

The 76 million babies that were born in the U.S. between 1946 and 1964 created an age-associated bulge in the population that has influenced the world around them since that time (Colby & Ortman, 2014). The “baby boomers,” as they are called, are currently making the transition to older adulthood, with between 8,000-10,000 turning 65 [...]

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Academic Writing: MFT Students’ Struggles

Writing is an important skill, but academic writing is unique and involves its own formal style (e.g., organization of concepts and ideas using a specific structure, ideas supported by references and citations, its tone reflects scientific objectivity, etc.; Paltridge, 2004). Marriage and family therapy (MFT) programs strive to support students develop writing skills to help [...]

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It Is All About Relationships

What Family Therapists Should Know and Consider About Their Approach. Family therapy, or “systemic therapy,” as it is better described, is a holistic process that espouses to resolve problems through relational healing, but is it practiced that way? It is hard to imagine how our family of origin, with its ever-evolving interactive contexts is not [...]

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A Boomer, Pandemics, and Ethics

At the time of this writing, May has begun, and it feels more like Corona-tide than Eastertide as I write this ethics piece. At 64 years of age, I am at the median of those whose births occurred between 1946 and 1964, the post war baby boom. In the middle of a pandemic that appears [...]

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Baby Boomers and the Demographic Shift

therapy talk Within 10 years, all of the nation’s 74 million baby boomers will be 65 or older. The most senior among them will be on the cusp of 85. Experts say the U.S. isn’t prepared for this vast demographic shift and its far-reaching consequences. Never have so many people lived so long, entering the [...]

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