Optimizing MFT Professional Socialization Development: Using the 4C Assessment Model in Supervision
Supervision is a crucial aspect of the development of competent, ethical marriage and family therapy (MFT) professionals providing quality client care in practice. Supervision is an ongoing professional relationship focusing on MFT clinical skills development, often including strengthening systemic thinking through case conceptualization, teaching and supporting clinicians’ use of systemic models and interventions in their [...]
Read MoreHigh-Conflict Communication in Blended Families: Helping Everyone Feel Heard Without Escalating Conflict
After a divorce or separation, clients can feel as though everything is a fight. It isn’t that they are high-conflict people. More often, they have developed a pattern of communication in which conflict is expected before the conversation even begins. Now add the complexities of a second relationship and additional children, and the dynamics of [...]
Read MoreSystemic Training in an Era of Anti-DEI Policies: Utilizing Three Systemic Pillars to Guide CFT Program Governance
Recent actions have affected DEI practices in higher education, with the February 14, 2025, Dear Colleague Letter (U.S. Department of Education, 2025) increasing scrutiny and causing uncertainty for programs focused on inclusion. Some departments face program threats, while others and institutions experience system-wide anxiety. The apparent goal is to prioritize certain groups' rights and silence [...]
Read MoreBeing a Positive Advocate When an Elder Needs Hospital Care
A large part of my work with caregivers has involved helping them learn how to be effective advocates when an elder requires hospital care. Advocacy refers to the actions you take to support the elder so they receive the best possible care and outcomes. Ideally, the advocate is also the elder’s Power of Attorney for [...]
Read MoreHow MFTs Can Improve Client Outcomes with Measurement-Based Care
The benefits of couple and family therapy are clear: systemic interventions are generally effective at increasing relationship satisfaction, improving communication, bolstering individual mental health, and reducing problematic behaviors (Wittenborn & Holtrop, 2021). But not every client leaves therapy with the improvement they hope for. Surprisingly, a substantial number of clients get worse over the course [...]
Read MoreNavigating New Terrain: Supporting Nonmonogamous Clients
Nonmonogamy (also known as consensual nonmonogamy and ethical nonmonogamy, these are umbrella terms that encompass swinging, polyamory, and other types of nonmonogamy) has moved from the margins toward greater cultural visibility in recent years. Popular media, social networks, and empirical research all reflect rising curiosity about alternative relationship structures. Population surveys suggest that about one [...]
Read MoreSleep Problems Are Relationship Problems: Why MFTs Should Be Leading Dyadic Sleep Interventions
Marriage and family therapists (MFTs) know something that sleep medicine has taken decades to discover: human problems don't exist in isolation. When someone can't sleep, it's rarely just their problem. It's a couple problem. A family problem. A relationship problem. After decades of research on sleep and relationships, the evidence is overwhelming: sleep is fundamentally [...]
Read MoreWhen the World Becomes Too Much: Living in Oscillanguish
There are moments in history when the emotional life of individuals cannot be understood outside of the systems they are embedded in. Moments when distress is not simply internal, but relational, political, technological, and collective. During the COVID-19 pandemic, Adam Grant talked about the concept of languishing, describing a psychological state between depression and flourishing, marked by emptiness, [...]
Read MoreWhen the Homeland Is on a Screen: How Geopolitical Trauma Affects Children in Diaspora Families
Ambient dread At dinner, a father’s hand pauses midair. His phone lights up with a video from a street he once walked as a teenager in Tehran. Smoke fills the frame. Someone is shouting. He leans closer without realizing his daughter is not watching the footage. She is watching his face. In the car after [...]
Read MoreRelief Under Fire: Chronic Repression and the Reorganization of Collective Survival
Historical Rupture and Long Conflict We are living through a historic inflection point, a moment that is reshaping how systems of power and resistance interact and how societies imagine their futures. Since 1979, Iranian society has been structured around an authoritarian system in which protest and suppression form a recurring relational pattern. External tensions with [...]
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