Disabilities and the Family: Where are the Marriage, Couple, and Family Therapists?

The U.S. prevalence of families who are impacted by a disability has been steadily increasing in recent years. According to recent U.S. Census Bureau (2019) data, approximately 13% of non-institutionalized adults have a reported disability that interferes with their ability to function independently and to perform activities of daily living such as driving, self-care, household [...]

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Neurodivergent Identity Formation: Are We Listening?

Seeds of identity are planted by genes and watered by the environment in which they grow. Although an explosion of identity development unfolds during adolescence, identity formation is an ongoing process across the lifespan. Identity itself is a personal construct unique to each individual, yet highly influenced by social interactions. Personal factors such as neurology, [...]

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Disability and Stigma

Disability is often perceived by society as a negative experience and something unwanted. As marriage and family therapists, we are accountable for our stigmas and biases towards disabled clients and their families. According to Ellingson and Quinlan (2014), the community of people with disabilities (PWD) is expanding more quickly than any other minority group worldwide: More-over, this [...]

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Top 5 Favorite Interventions for Treating a Family with a Disability

Working with families living with a disability can often feel overwhelming for beginning and seasoned clinicians. Because there are minimal studies assessing the effectiveness of systemic models and interventions for families living with a disability (Chengappa, McNeil, Norman, Questsche, & Travers, 2017; Llyod & Dallos, 2006; Turns, Jordan, Callahan, Whiting, & Springer, 2019), clinicians often [...]

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“How come no one can help us?” How MFTs Can Begin Treating Families with a Disability

Out of the two new clients I (B.T.) received one day, both were raising a child with an Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). “We met with two other family therapists but they told us we were ‘out of their scope,’ because they didn’t know anything about autism,” the parents informed me. As I nodded and gave [...]

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Teaching Clients How to Argue Properly with the Use of Reflective Listening: A Worksheet

Picture this … a couple in your office is arguing. One starts to dominate the session with a filibuster onslaught, berating the other partner, because you waited a hair too long to interject while observing their negative interaction pattern. Now you’re scrambling to take back control of the room. . Sound familiar? After witnessing my [...]

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Integrative Approaches to Play Therapy

Symptoms of ADHD may be diminished using the Gottman Method when integrated with Reality Play Therapy (RePT) and/or Circus Arts Therapy fitness and play therapy program (CAT). While participating in play therapy, the therapist may utilize questioning methods from the Gottman Sound Relationship House’s (SRH; Gottman & Silver, 2015) seven phases in supporting parents and [...]

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Equity and e-Learning for Children: Therapists as Advocates

Marcus, a 49-year-old widower and a single parent, was referred to therapy because he was concerned that his 10-year-old son, Edwin, and 13-year-old daughter, Bita, lagged behind academically during Spring 2020 distance learning. Marcus works two jobs and cannot be available to help his children stay on task with schoolwork due to his work schedule. [...]

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Arthritis and Family Dynamics

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC, 2018) in a recent survey found that approximately 54.4 million people in the United States had been diagnosed with an arthritis related disease by a physician. Doctors focus on the individual patient when managing a chronic illness, but a diagnosis of a chronic illness reaches further than [...]

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A Message from the President and CEO

During the Business meeting last October, a member astutely asked AAMFT leadership, “What about the building?” The question was alluding to whether AAMFT would continue its ownership of our headquarters or sell. It was a perfectly understandable inquiry since AAMFT staff had been working remotely since March because of COVID. The reply was simply, “We [...]

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